I'm 15 and ive been with my bf for just over 7 months and lately we've been talking about having sex. i trust him completely and i know he wouldnt do anything to ever hurt me. we're both virgins but he's in the year above me and knows a lot more stuff and i have absolutely no idea what to do and i'm scared that somehow i'll probably manage to stuff up. do you have any pointers? asked by Anonymous

Okay firstly I’m just going to go over the legalities of this (with my limited knowledge). I don’t know where you live, but here in the UK it’s actually illegal for a 16 year old sleep with anyone younger than that (I’m assuming your boyfriend is 16 as he’s in the year above?). That being said, in reality you won’t get into trouble, I just felt I had to make it clear haha.

Anyway onto the good stuff. You shouldn’t worry about messing it up, like you said you’re both virgins so neither one of you has anything to compare it to. He may think he knows a lot more stuff but it’s doubtful and he’s probably as nervous as you (and excited). It should be amazing and really easy if you do trust each other as much as you say you do. If you really do want some specific pointers (e.g. on being on top, blowjobs etc) then feel free to ask. :)

Oh and remember to use a condom! You don’t want to be knocked up so young haha

Idk if you remember me but I'm the guy that finally was making money and was trying to refrain from sex because I didn't want girls to have sex with me for the wrong reasons. Also i'm the guy with the snickers dick..lol..but anyway I have an issue. I have 2 jobs and I'm trying to get my gym membership back. With 2 jobs and going to the gym how will I find time for not only a social life,but if sex does come my way how will I find time for that? It seems like I'll have a full schedule..lol asked by Anonymous

Oh hey snicker dick! haha. From what I can tell so far you seem to be putting too much pressure on yourself when it comes to sex, you seem to be overthinking every aspect of it! I think you need to just relax a bit and let whatever happens happen. I’m sure you’ll find the time somewhere between two jobs and gym. Who knows you might meet someone at the gym or work and it’ll all just work out perfectly, if not then you’ll have to just learn to prioritise, what’s most important right now? I’m sure when it comes to it you’re not going to mind missing a gym session here and there for the sex. It’s the same with a social life really, try not to ignore your friends because you’re busy with work/gym because I think you’ll regret that, but of course don’t mess up with work either because money is great. I’m sure you’ll manage it though, we all grow up and have to make sacrifices at some point or another, it’s just about balancing your time well and being happy with it. 

i really need to know this and don't hesitate to speak the honest truth. is it a turn off for guys when girls have bigger than normal nipples. like the outside part? asked by Anonymous

As a girl I can’t really say if it’s a turn off. All I can say is that all guys like different things, some are going to like it, some will find it a turn off and for some they just won’t care. It’s not something to worry about, there’s nothing wrong with them being larger than the average!

is it normal to feel weird if ur looking at eachother while having sex? asked by Anonymous

I guess it depends on the person you’re with. But yeah I’d say it’s normal, especially on one night stands/with someone you’re not that close to. Just same as it feels weird if you’re just kissing and you open your eyes haha

When I shave I notice I have discoloration. Do you know any tips of trips to get rid of this? asked by Anonymous

I need to know a little more about what sort of discolouration you’re talking about here… 

if i can feel my cervix while fingering myself then could that mean that i don't have my hymen? asked by Anonymous

I don’t really know a great deal about the human anatomy, just sex. But yeah it’s possible you already broke your hymen from either fingering yourself or any other activities really!

im not really the relationship type, i just don't like the hole emotional part of it. but my best friend is just so amazing in every way and he just always puts a smile on my face. i genuinely like him (which is rare for me) and he likes me too, we fool around and stuff, but he doesn't wanna go out with me cause he thinks ill just cheat on him or get bored of him.. any ideas? asked by Anonymous

You just have to explain this to him. Tell him t’s rare for you to really like someone how you do him, explain you would never cheat on him (as long as you wouldn’t!) and yeah, that’s all you can do really and hope he trusts you. Good luck. :)

Thank you so much, i confronted him and the other day sex was great , he even let me finish . YOU ARE THE BOMBEST!! asked by Anonymous

haha glad to hear it, no problem :D

I had sex with a girl, she gave me herpes(or how ever you spell it) what do i do? asked by Anonymous

Did you find out because you got tested or because she told you? If she told you then go to your doctor or a nearby sexual health clinic to get tested and they’ll take it from there. If you already got tested make sure she knows she has it. Sadly there’s no cure for herpes but antiviral medications will prevent any outbreaks so it’ll be like you don’t even have it. 

Next time just wear a condom, I know some guys don’t like to because sex doesn’t feel as good, but it’s sure as hell better than getting an STI. :) 

Of friend of mine and I have decided to try to have casual sex (bad idea I know) but I kind of self conscious of my boobs. Im a 36DD and they sag a bit. Should I be embarrassed of should I just brush it off since we're just friends anyway? Any advise would help. asked by Anonymous

Definitely don’t be embarrassed, they sound like great boobs. I’m sure your friend will have great fun playing with them :) 

My boyfriend and i love oral, and he even told me i taste like peaches. But the last time we hang out he didn't wanna eat me out because this time i tasted "sour". and i hadn't even come close to an orgasm before hand. so whats sup with my vagina? Dose that mean im just close to my period or what? asked by Anonymous

Yes it could be because you were close to your period. Maybe you didn’t wash too well down there that one time. I know a guys diet can determine how his cum tastes, so maybe it’s the same for girls as well.. sorry I don’t know too much on this.

Not really a question buuuuuut, I've been hooking up with this guy, and I really like him but he keeps asking me to give him head with nothing in return. I never do cause I feel like it's not fair to me. Ya know? Why is it that guys think they're entitled to get head from a girl when they won't go down on them? Just a pet peeve! haha asked by Anonymous

I know what you mean, I’ve given ehad to plenty of guys who never returned the favour. There’s obviously going to be a number of reasons for it, but I think maybe some guys can feel a little intimidated by the thought of actually doing it. I believe there’s more skill in licking out a girl than there is to give guy head, so maybe they’re worried they won’t do it right? Or if you watch a lot of porn you’ll notice that there’s more focus on the women giving the guy head than there is of him going down on her. I’m not really sure to be honest. You could always suggest doing the 69 position so you both get what you want! :)

(Guy with the snicker bar dick..lol) Just wanted to thank you again..You really made mt day :) asked by Anonymous

‘snicker bar dick’, haha love it! No problem :)

This is the guy that asked about whether I should try the penis enlargement or not. I want to thank you for your input. It's just sometimes I get confused as to what females really want. They'll talk a big game and say they want something really big. I'll wait and see what my first thinks of the size. I can only describe my penis and it may sound weird but it looks a lot like a snickers candy bar. It may be 2 inches bigger than a snickers. Hopefully I won't scar ppl from eating snickers. Lol asked by Anonymous

Your penis is sounding perfect to me right now (it helps that I love snickers haha). But seriously it sounds like a good size. I know some girls do rant on about wanting a guy with a big penis, but I think they’re just chatting shit sometimes and have no idea what they’re saying. Average is fine and yours sounds a lot better than that.. any girl is going to be lucky! :)

I feel like my penis is a little more than average sized when erect. I don't know if it's my ego or not but I want it to be larger. I want it to be really huge so that when I get with a female there won't really be any complaints. But I'm also afraid of taking penis enlargement because I'm not sure of the side effects. Basically I just want to hear your thoughts on that. Are women really satisfied with a normal sized penis or should I just go for making myself larger just so there is no doubt? asked by Anonymous

Personally an average sized penis is fine for me, and well if you’re a little more than average then there’d be no complaints here, and I’m sure a lot of women would be happy with it. Think yourself lucky for what you do have, it could be worse haha. I honestly don’t think you need to mess around with the size. If you’re still a virgin then obviously wait until you’ve slept with a girl and see how she responds to your size… where you have a bigger than average penis it’s going to mainly be about how you use it, as the size is fine! Anyway there is such a thing as being too big for some women, some guys are just so big it hurts the girl and sex isn’t enjoyable. 

As for taking anything to enhance your penis size I don’t actually know much about it. If you’re thinking about buying pills for it then please look into it 110%, you could either be wasting your money or even worse risking your health. There’s definitely going to be tonnes of scams out there. 

Hope this has helped a little, happy fucking!