Hey my current boyfriend and I are going to have sex now the first time we get a chance. He is a virgin and two years older than me and I have done it with one other guy. I told my boyfriend that the guy I've had sex with before and I only did it twice when really it happened so many times I didn't count. Should I tell him the truth before we have or not mess with anything and not tell him?? asked by Anonymous

It’s up to you really. I mean honest relationships are probably the best, but it’s not really a life changing lie you’ve told him. I imagine he’d only be annoyed that you lied to him in the first place. Although he might be happy you told him the truth in the end. However, telling him you’ve had sex ‘so many times’ might make him feel a bit more nervous about losing his virginity with you as he may feel you’re more experienced (I could be wrong here). But yeah, I can’t make the decision for you, it’s whatever you think will be best for your relationship. :)

So, my guy knows to give me oral and finger a little before he puts his dick in so its nice and wet. But after changing positions a couple times and going for a while I'm not wet anymore and it hurts a bit. What's up with this? asked by Anonymous

It could just be that you’re not feeling quite as turned on by those particular positions. It’s not uncommon to lose ‘wetness’, I sure have and it’s quite annoying! If it happens again then try and get him to back to oral/fingering. I imagine it’s because you get more wet from clitoral stimulation (like most women), so you could even rub your own clit whilst he’s inside you. 

You guys are making out, Still with clothes on. What do you do when the guy starts rubbing his dick / making you feel his dick? " Dry humping " asked by Anonymous

If you’re comfortable with that then just go with it, do whatever feels good. I mean if you want to (and if he does) then maybe you could actually reach down in trousers and actually rub his dick without clothes. But if you’re not ready for that then just keep rubbing it whilst he’s still wearing clothes, that can be quite a big turn on!

How do you french kiss? I find it really sexy but I dont know how :| asked by Anonymous

I find giving tips on kissing quite difficult and it’s just one of those things that most people can do naturally. But I’ll give it my best shot!

I guess my main tip is to be slow with it, don’t just shove your tongue in the persons mouth and start waving it around in there, that is not sexy. Start by kissing normally, and if the other person seems ready then put your tongue a little bit inside there mouth, just gently nudging their tongue with yours. It’s almost like you’re massaging each others tongues, but smoothly. 

Hope that helps!

So, I've been making out with this guy and every time I try to put my tongue in his mouth he pushes my tongue back and makes me open my mouth and puts his tongue inside and out like I'm giving him a blow job. Should that be a good thing or should I be grossed out? o.O asked by Anonymous

Only be grossed out if you don’t like it. I mean it does sound odd that he pushes your tongue out. Maybe you should be more forceful (not in a rapey way haha) but try and do what you want to do as well.